Wednesday, June 30, 2010

Here and There

Post #51

There are people you know you're going to stay friends with your whole life. People who will be your bridesmaids at your wedding. People whose children are going to play with your children.

And then there are people you know are inevitably going to leave your life. Not that you mind. They might return...but they always leave in the end.

Ah. There's one more. The one where you don't care. You couldn't care less whether or not you stayed friends forever. Either way...same difference.

But you know what?

Friendship is a two way street.

You want to stay friends? You make the effort to stay friends. Don't leave it all in the hands of someone else. You take control of your life. You stay in touch. Not me, not her, not them, you.

And if after a few months apart, you think I've disappeared from your life...you have no one to blame but yourself. Because you never tried.

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